He's NOT my Commander in Chief, and he never will be.
In college I had a friend who couldn't stand Bill Clinton, and complained bitterly about Clinton right up until the day he was sworn in as President. When we asked my friend why he stopped complaining, he said that because he belonged to the military, Clinton was his Commander now, and it was wrong to criticize his superior officers. As we didn't belong to the military, we were free to criticize and complain.
